Once we start transforming, we never stop. We change. Not completely, but we more or less adapt to our new shape, our new feelings. The hardest part of this natural process is to go with the flow and let it happen. There is a moment and a place in life for each thing. A moment to be someone, and once that has happened, an opportunity to become someone else. And, if we’re lucky, there’s also a moment to love somebody and become a loved person, too.